you argue may be noble and contain some truth (I'm a straight sensitive guy myself). Unfortunately, this behavior will and always will be rejected by the vast majority heterosexual women. No rationale, no changes in the social fabric, no protesting, no education, nada will overcome the female hormones to seek out a masculine mate.
the idea of masculine and feminine behavior is not made up. a lot of the behaviors are influenced by biology, evolutionary psychology and hormones
Reread what I said
re read what i said. femininity and masculinity are not by any means fluid or subjective.
That’s not what I said lol.
"It's made up, like whatever each individual decides is "fem behavior' is what they will choose to judge by."-you
@Mr-Kabuki Which is true. The reality of biology doesn't matter when it comes to the individual minds of people who wish to judge you. So if a girl doesn't like "feminine behavior" on her potential SO, then she won't date him. But she's not going to go into a biology book and research what biology thinks are the standard traits of both sexes. That's absolutely retarded lol.And thus, each mans "femininity" or lack thereof, is purely based on the minds and opinions of whatever woman is looking to date him. The metrics are made up by each woman based on her own life and set of experiences. So calm your god damn tits with your political anger. Nobody is here talking about SJWs and shit. Fuck off lol.
LOL... You're funny !
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It is called a preference
@Rissyanne Oh, I said that I'm fine if the girl says "No, I don't want that". But what I have a problem with, is when they say "No, they shouldn't do that". Like, saying that the guy isn't a real man because he acts effeminate.
This. I’ve always thought that having a preference is fine. If you don’t like a certain kind of person then that’s fine and people most likely don’t have a whole lot of control over it anyways. But what’s definitely wrong is telling people what to do or who to be solely based on your own preferences, as if they’re somehow a universal rule. That’s wrong. Preferences are not objective or based on any sort of universal truth, therefore they shouldn’t dictate how everyone should live or behave just because you might not ”like” how they are.
A guy can live how ever he wants. But I’m not going out with an effeminate man. That is a huge turn off to me. That is my preference. I have a right to it
@lumos yes! Plus, you can have a preference without being a total dick about it, which is not something that I see often. People tend to use their “preferences” as an excuse to be dicks. Or racist.
And people should be able to have a preference without being shamed or being called a dick or racist.
you can totally tell he's gay
@Rissyanne darling, you’re the most aggressive person about your “preferences” ever. You regularly make racist accusations about how all Muslims are evil and all black people are stupid, gangsters and thugs. So maybe the reason that you’re being called a racist... is because you’re a racist.
This is why I have some people blocked because they are liberal bullies who just want to name call
@Rissyanne funny how you think liberals are sensitive snowflakes until they call you out... then you’re the one with hurt feelings.
@lumos Thank you!!The weird part is that you're all agreeing with me, yet you're talking as if you disagree... third time, I said it's totally fine to have a preference on whether you like it or not, so long as you're not dictating what you feel should be "correct" in society. I think racism is a completely different thing though. Like, instead of race preference, it's actually race superiority. You're dictating the rights of another based on your own preferences in this manner.
You are dictating who someone should choose to date. It’s not racist to have a preference. I don’t care what someone else does. That is their business but I have the right to date who I want without getting called names. I wouldn’t call you an ageist if you didn’t want to date an 80 year old woman.
@Rissyanne You're still not listening to me, and you're still not getting it. Fourth time, and I'm not going to crack this through your skull again... it is FINE to date whoever you would like. It is NOT fine to say that someone should change their lifestyle, simply because YOU do not like it.
When did I say that someone should change their lifestyle? I was addressing what you said about racial preference. I guess you didn’t read my comment fully.
@Rissyanne Oh, there's nothing racist about having a preference to date one race or another. I thought you were defending actual racism.
No I wasn’t.
Oh I meant "you" in a general sense, not you as in >you<. Just highlighting what I agree with :)
@lumos oh no, I know you were agreeing with me 😊 Only the "thank you" was for you, the rest of the argument was for everyone else. I appreciated that.
I do all those but Im ugu do I still got a change? lol
@Anonskaterguy I don’t understand what you’re saying.
Who told u that masculinity means just being raged and lusty?
Tell it like the way it is ! Salute ma'am.
And yes I said gay, I'll peg him if he wants, I am sick of straight men, they are surprisingly weak ad it's weird.
someone got hurt.
@Omega_brie Um... fuck yeah nigga.
what has happened to you girl?
Pretty sure dating a gay guy won't have better results but what do I know
You have issues ! Dont worry... no straight man wants you too.
@Alpha89s You should bite me, just a suggestion.
Nah. I pity you.
@Alpha89s Please don't, I'm okay. Save it for the starving kids in Africa.
Its the white man problem, huh? lolwhat a great person you are mentioning the world problems by just sitting behind your screen.
Yeah, I know I'm great.
@Alpha89s "Its the white man problem, huh?"geezus you special snowflake why do you have to bring race into this? snowflake pun intended
@Omega_brie Cause thats the feminist agenda ! dumbass
@Alpha89s Damn, you sound as hurt as this woman lol
what about a straight man thats used by women too much because of his sexual abilities and simply wants love?
where are you from cause thats where im going...
Effeminacy. Google it.
because of traditional gender roles...
@little_bird1 if by masculine you mean traits like in control, dominant, lack of emotions besides anger, those are probably why a lot of women have difficulty in relationship right? Feminine behavior seems really broad. I'm pretty sure that can include showing emotion and being accommodating.
Not look or act or speak but what if the loved. and. cared for you more. deeply were. willingnto. share. how. they feel and crw with you and comfort. you if thats what youbneeded were willing. to show you all of themselves and not just pretend
@SouthpawPablo then he'd be a very loved and valued friend
@datgirl so you simply wouldn't date him. be cause. he is in. touch. with. his. fem side and admits. it? go news. for u. all men have it. Some men are man an wide enough to. embrace all. of them selves to. be a better and. more. understanding. lover have. fun. with your. box. of. tools. that. leave after. the feel u are used up. too them. I truly wish. u luck. but. have seen. it. enough. to. know. u probly. won't. find. what u seek without it having so many mental issues hidden along with that feminine side that they suppressed
@SouthpawPablo the was you type is giving me a headache so please fix that. Also, you are completely misunderstanding the askers question and my answer. When you figure that out come back and talk to me otherwise gtfo.
sorry i dont care enough to fix all the fuckups my cracked screen places when i type if you can't read it improve your reading ability and comprehension
@SouthpawPablo haha loser
"I'm almost like this guy *lists differences*" Yep, convincing.
@SoCk3t_PoCk3tZ Still, the differences are minor.
PICS OR IT didn't HAPPEN!!!
Do you think relationships should have clearly marked male and female roles then? And if so what duties do those roles entail?
I don't know why, but your comment of "whiny hipsters" made me LOL!😆😂
Iam extremly fem when it comes to love sex and being. in. touch with my emotions example is 5 years not sleeping with anyone because i need an emotinal connection and that it dam near impossible. to find online and i am by no means attracted to men in any way find them repulsive in more ways then one but if. i didn't I would of been able to sleep with countless couples who have hit. me up on dam near everz dating site. I find that overly masculine men are the ones that are trying to make up or hide for something
and you know very well my friend the best way i can explain it is i can just fuck a woman imean i can but to enjoy it fullly i would have to have an emotional connection and trust her along with relationships i love very deeply and wayy to fast and fucking hate it cause i always get fucked and not in a good way
I am the exact same way
No straight girl would
@Rissyanne Indeed.And the funny irony is: all of you girls say prefer sensitive, nice and romantic guys. The point is all these do not match with our nature.
and when they do they never fucking date us or when they do date us they fuck us over...
@SouthpawPablo Then act like a man not a woman.
@rissyanne I do act like a man but I love like. a woman lol maybe you should act like a woman and keep your yap shut? Same bullshit you just said to me. Eh?
If you got even a taste of this dope dick your ass would be hoooked but im all set because you are a dark soul and bit the cool gamer kind just a shitty person
@SouthpawPablo Just come on out of the closet.
@Rissyanne if i liked nasty hairy naked men I would gargle balls all day no thanks I am me and i love that pussy and making love to a real woman but you wouldn't know a real woman if a mirror fell on you in bed XD
also pleasing my woman is part of my sexual preference knowing how good I am doing is amazing and I never have tried anything with a man but i can say there is no sexual attraction what so ever if there was life would be much easier for me i tell ya
@SouthpawPablo any man that said “gargle balls” isn’t straight
@Rissyanne Lol so because I got dope ass insults for online gaming and watch some freaky ass slut porn im gay? LOGIC
Good one ! lol
@Alpha89s thanks man
Well since. when. did. this. become a dating site. for only. nice. guys who want the same as women true passionate love
What do you mean by taking it too far?
I take charge in sex I would pull your. hair and. slap your ass and tell. you you have been. a. naughty bitch that needs to be punshed then. I. could. tie. u up. and. drill fuck u with my cock then. the. next. night I. could make slow passionate sex to you so fem traits for me is. being. more aware of. what my partner wants needs or wishes and the feeling those desires and wants both mentally emotionally physically and sexually that also gets me off more too so better for me and. my partner
@SouthpawPablo that's abusive
But you know you both would love all three
then I don't know wtf your masculine man does lays there like a log and tells you what you do? lol
@Names93 Don't you know what manly mean? Girls like masculine guys, sorry if your feelings are hurt.
@Names93 exactly like she said
I would suppose it's flamboyance.
Franco what up lol and yeah that makes sense I think most flamboyant guys are gay though
I'm inclined to agree.
you can't be serious...
@Mr-Kabuki No, that's a very real question he is asking. The ideas of femininity vary by culture, subjective experiences, and time period.
ggnore @Mr-Kabuki lmao
@dinemsko Thank you.
@2opaz how? How can I answer the question. Some women think opening the door for them is feminine behaviour.
what's a real man?
Masculine Man.tho its really weird to ask me what is a real man !!!
lmao, not weird at all. though here's the real answer.. there isn't such a thing... opinions are not facts.
As you wish ! but not according to science ans social norms. most women wants real men.I know the truth hurts.
Real men learn how to form their own conclusions and opinions. Not from studies. You do know that not every one of those so called studies are correct? You're basically a drone because a doctor or scientist told you so. Learn to think for yourself.
Oh believe me man ! according to my experience with women I KNOW what Im talking about.no need to be triggered and show your emotions like this lolyou still have a chance with a feminist ... they like your type... weirdo.
Your experience is what you believe to be true, you imbecile. You've been spoon fed too many lies. It's time for you to wake up. lol
Wake up from what? loli'm getting the girls while you keep bitching like pussy.
From your dream, idiot. I can tell you like to brag about things you don't have. I guess some of you never do grow up from the high school mentality.
If you refer to science, you sound like you have some irrefutable evidence on what makes manly man. can you share this evidence please?
@asdf4672 Hahahaha Male frustration is pathetic !!!I know your type believe me... always weak.
@Names93 I would but my level 1 account prevents me from put it her so google it yourself and see why most women love masculine men.
@Alpha89s let me ask you this, so you don't cry? Oh you too manly to shed any tears. It's a sign of weakness. Haha, you're quite the character.
Oh that old story. Doing a google search doesn't mean squat. It won't mean it scientifically proves what you say.
@Names93 Blame this site that prevents me from post it according to their policy.Aha... I guess you already did that and found the UGLY TRUTH !!good luck with your femininity weirdo !!! lol
I'll be honest I've not actually read most of this thread because lazy. However, the whole Alpha fucks and Beta bucks thing tends to ring mostly true. Usually women in their younger years go for what could be considered the typical alpha male, confident/leader types or just arrogant in some cases. And then settle with some beta provider later in life when they get the baby rabies. However, I've found that you can be or at least possess some beta traits while having a muscular or alpha typical physique and still get attention and/or laid.
@Silver158 That's very true !there is noway a man is 100% masculine. but at least the basics are essentials.That's why women are attracted to masculinity and men love the feminine women.there are exceptions but they are really few ones.
if you think having a girl makes you a better person, then they are the one that's truly pathetic.
***if you think having a girl makes you a better person, then you are the one that's truly pathetic.
@asdf4672 Shhhhhh ! you just can't get some. loser lol
@asdf4672 it can make you a better person or a worse person. Due to relationship dynamics you'll usually find people tend to "rub off" on one another. so if you find a girl that's a good person you'll naturally become a better person (unless you're a saint already...) and vice versa.
Does your girlfriend also fuck you in the ass?
@ThisDudeHere Yep she does