I know it’s shady.. but hear me out. I’ve been with my boyfriend almost two years. He left his phone in bed and he was doing something so I went on it and found he had another random fb account with nothing on it at all. Then his snap chat he had a bunch of random girls on there and Instagram he asked some girl to snap him a nude, andddd I found these old screenshots of random girls nudes.. I don't know what the hell to do because I feel like if I say something I’m going to look crazy but like wtf.
Most Helpful Guy
Okay first off. Guys look at women and they look at porn.
Second BOTH of you need to determine what is cheating and what's not. My ex-girlfriend considered a cheating for me just to have other girls pictures on my phone. But I didn't consider cheating unless I was flirting and touching another woman. What's actually cheating can vary from person to person.
Third you're already going through his phone so you already don't trust him. Is that because you were suspicious or because you just had the opportunity. Either way you need to scale out your trust determine if he's worth your trust.
Four, not every guy is perfect some guys have girls on there Instagram and Snapchat but there's no affection there it's only something to look at. I know that sounds misogynistic but it's true.
Personally I have things like suicide girls on my Instagram and my girlfriend knows about it and is fine with it.
Lastly yes you need to talk about it. I'm going to tell you right now but he's going to be angry and defensive since you went into his phone. It's an invasion of privacy it doesn't matter if you're his girlfriend. But I need to stress that you need to draw lines as to what is cheating.
As a last note this is going to fallow you and you are going to trust him less unless you clear the air.0
Most Helpful Girl
1). Destroy his phone. Break it till it goes black.
2). Destroy his clothes. Just rip the one he likes most completely apart.
3). Text these b*tches that you're his girlfriend and that he is a piece of shite and just block them or even better, upload his d*ck pics on every social profile he has. Send them to his mother, his boss, his father.
4). Scratch his car and deflate his tires
5). Finally, welcome him home when he comes back, say you break up with him but do not tell him why. Then run away as soon as possible and make sure he doesn't get to you ever again. If it's your house, pack his things and wave him goodbye. That's not called being a boyfriend and you would have found out sooner or later. That's called being an egoistic piece of sh*t. Make him payy girl make. Him. Pay.1