Who usually asks for the first date?

  • I suggest going out on a date first
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  • I wait for the other person to suggest it first
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I usually ask first, by the way. If I'm interested in someone I let them know.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Every good relationship I have ever had, she has approached me. I am far more confident when I know she actually wants me.

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    • Good update! That is the only way I know how to be comfortable.

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    • Then ask, silly

    • Hahaha I know I know. But if I really knew what I need to do, I would be relishing in the love and companionship of someone. When I get self-conscious, I can't think in real time.

Most Helpful Girl

  • i prefer it. it lets mer ow if they are interested, and if they are ok beign asked and i get it out of the way instead of wasting timer, plus i like the feeling of doing it.

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What Guys Said 10

  • I'll ask first, but sometimes I've encountered a situation where I had no idea she was interested. In those cases, the other person should ask to get the ball rolling.

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  • Generally I wait until its obvious we both wanna go
    Im a sure bet kinda guy lol

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  • I've been asked out a few times and said yes each time.

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  • I gave up because everytime I did, I got shot down.

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  • Who do you think? Where would you like to go?

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    • I want to go see the Christmas displays at Longwood Gardens!

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    • Now I want to ditch my morning coffee and have some. Like maybe stir it with a candy cane so it's minty.

  • I wait for the girl to suggest it first.

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  • Tbh, it should be the one who's most interested.

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    • I think it just falls on whoever has more courage in the moment. Not asking can just be fear not lack of interest.

    • One does not exclude the other, there's soo many factors in these things ^^ All pretty hard to say.

  • You should go ask him

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  • Whichever one wants it more

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  • Me or her

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What Girls Said 3

  • I would rather do the asking. I think it’s a control thing.

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  • I asked my crush out 3 weeks ago and it went well but I'm still waiting for the answer

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  • I usually never suggest

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