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Sure, I could look past the chair, you're also making great effort to minimize its use maybe to just where it's needed or at least something like that. Right? That's the way it sounded. Anyway the wheelchair isn't the issue. What it sounds like your issue is, is the lack of self confidence brought on by the sudden breakup of your last romantic relationship. It also counts like you haven't come to closure with the relationships sudden ending. You are looking at the whys and what ifs of the loss of a relationship you honestly felt was going somewhere, then you were hit with an unexplained breakup.
If you were a friend, and if you are on speaking terms with your ex-girlfriend, I'd advise you to talk to her to ask why she thinks the relationship ended. I wouldn't count on this changing her mind, it probably won't so make sure she understands that. Tell her it's just because you're just trying to come to terms with the break up so you can pick up the pieces and go on with your life. If and when you do talk to her make certain that you apologize for anything you said or did to hurt her. Being honest and decent with her is probably going to have her treat you the same. It sounds like only when you can answer your questions that you can pick up and carry on!
You are also a handsome enough guy that you shouldn't allow this to hold you back whether you're on wheels or on your feet!! Now get out there and start wowing them ladies again!!