Most Helpful Guy
You can and you do.
You can take the initiative yourself but you don't thus leaving men to do it. Subsequently you choose from the men who take initiative.
Thus, you choose your mate regardless.2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
women CAN choose their mates. Most simply choose to play by societal/cultural norms and wait like damsels in distress till a guy approaches them.5THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE