Why can't women choose their mates?

Why can men only choose who they will date? Women just wait to be chosen, like a puppy in a kennel.

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  • You can and you do.

    You can take the initiative yourself but you don't thus leaving men to do it. Subsequently you choose from the men who take initiative.
    Thus, you choose your mate regardless.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • women CAN choose their mates. Most simply choose to play by societal/cultural norms and wait like damsels in distress till a guy approaches them.

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  • That's absolute rubbish. In nature, females have the sole decisive power in choosing exactly who their sexual partner (s) will be as we males either duke it out with one another, or show off our best assets alternatively. We humans are no different. Either way, it's a largely one-sided competitive arena of display and gained access. Ultimately, any male horny enough would bang [almost] any female regardless of her socio-economic status or beauty directly violating normal female preference by comparison. Quite the contrary, in fact, it's just lazy, culturally-insecure women these days, as ever, will always expect us men to do everything. Be it the first move or whatever else. Outside of actual rape itself, such a claim has no factual basis. It's very likely that only after swearing off men entirely as the hostile feminity wanes, or whenever she herself grows up, whichever applies, will she, growing tired of being alone herself, and upon realizing that the lot of men has equally given up on her, and others like her, will they as a collective whole begin to question what is wrong with the bigger picture they themselves created. This is especially true if she cannot procure even a 'good sap' of man no longer content with being her last. Thirsts quenched elsewhere, eventually we grow bored of the time-wasted chase.

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    • In other words, such women simply shit test their way out of one night stand and future husband alike turning mere fuck into rocket science in a place where it need not be. Or, got the two confused rather. Thus, your typical single mom or lonely rich cat lady.

  • Well, why don’t women go out and approach men? You never see that happen, if you do, it’s extremely rare. If you want to be the ones to choose your mates women should start taking the initiative just like men do and approach.

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  • Women make it clear whether they want a man to choose them or not, so really, I've always thought the women choose.

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    • If they did every black woman would be married to a white man. Most black women like white guys but they are not with them

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    • Winning her back over? I'm not getting that.

    • Old Argentine joke:

      If he says Yes he means Maybe
      If he says Maybe he means No
      If he says No he's not a politician

      If she says No she means Maybe
      If she says Maybe she means Yes
      If she says Yes, she's not a lady

  • Technically they do. They are the ones that say yes or no to the ones that approach them. In addition, you are equally able to pursue someone like a man would. So to recap, either you ask or be asked, you do choose or not choose your mate unless you are in an arranged marriage.
    *Flips table*

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  • They can. Women who choose not to approach men is their choice. Just because they choose not to approach, flirt or ask men out doesn't mean that they don't have the option to.

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  • can't they?

    last time i looked it was the 21st century. you might want to join it

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  • How many men have you asked out?
    How many times have you just walked up to a man and tried flirting with him?

    It's scary as fuck isn't it? Please why don't women contribute more?
    Why don't more women face their fear of rejection like so many men have before.

    Because it's easier not to.

    Because they don't have to all they have to do is "wait to be chosen, like a puppy in a kennel."

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  • It doesn't have to be that way, there's nothing that says a girl can't ask a guy out, or if there is, there shouldn't be. If you like a guy, I say take the initiative.

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  • They are, even more so. The control and power is to the woman. Girl power!

    Unfortunately, you will be bored of that power and freedom as you were with other things.

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  • Umm lol? Guys get shot down like every day in America. Are you from Iran or something?

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What Girls Said 3

  • We can choose who we date. You can choose who you go on a date with.

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  • Women have standards.

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  • Women can/do choose their mates. The reason we don’t approach is because we want a man strong and confident enough to be able to approach us. The ones that can’t prove themselves to be weak and unworthy.

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    • Yet it seems those confidant men turns out to be fkbois most of the time but we all know who much women love them fkbois i mean confidant and strong men.

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