Isn't it ok as long as it's not a serious relationship as there is no commitment until then right?
They're still under the impression of dating though
How so? Isn't this the kinda thing people discuss on the 1st date?
You confuse sex with dating. Dating is finding out if you want to have sex with this person. I can't ever date someone to see if we click?
@readywriter morally, i dont think even that is right. by dating more than one person you are showing a serious lack of commitment, and i mean serious. if you click with one person, they will eventually figure out that you were dating more than just her, and she will lose a lot of trust for you, if she hasn't already left you
You don't hide it. You see different people and when you find one you would like to see more you stop seeing others then. She may not stop seeing others and that tells me something. I'm not going to stop meeting people because I asked someone to say at the beach house over the weekend. We will have a great time on the boat and fishing. I may wnat to see her again. She may want to see me me again. or we may find out that we would be better friends than mates. We both date other people and maybe she will go fishing again because she likes fishing.
@readywriter but again, it is a lack of commitment and responsibility. if i were the girl personally, Id want a guy that sees me and only me on a first date. it will prove so much more in a long term relationship, even if its just simple. the girl wants the guy to devote to her and only her, not only does it make her feel special but i believe its just common sense and integrity
You want a boy who will only date you. A commitment from osne one who is not yet even been on your first date? You want a puppy not a man. I suggest that you are either too much a airhead or so unsophisticated and inexperienced that you do not understand the basis of relationships. Do you also make the commitment to be true to him before you go out? You 'integrity' demands that you pledge not to ever date other men before you know what the guy is like in private.
@readywriter unsophisticated? analogy time: when you want to sample different ice creams to find out which one you want for your cone, do you shove all of the flavors in your mouth at once?
and why would u want a girl who doesn't only date you?
No I try the flavor of the week. One week at a time. And I might like several before I go back and choose the best one for me. It your analogy were valid you would never try but one flavor for fear of losing your 'integrity". Chocolate was your first and it will always be true and be there for you because your would never try another flavor. Get a better analogy.
@readywriter wait why r u asking this question if u seem so certain about the answer
You asked the question. Are you new to dating?
@readywriter bro im 16, i have idealized romance but sometime idealized like a shoujo is better than actual like a josei and can really help a relationship, becuz most josei relationships both parties are depressed
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