Now he's single and around, we went out for a drink last week and he lingered in hugs, touch and says he can't help but always be drawn to me and wants me to be able to open up to him.
I don't know if this is all friend stuff or if he wants more.
Don't know what to do...
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Aw man!! Let me just say I’m sorry you find yourself in this position and I sympathize because I was in a similar situation. Twice now.
There’s nothing worst than trying to judge if someone’s actions mean a lot more than they appear to be, or if they’re exactly as they appear.
Girl I liked at the time, I asked and see stopped talking to me, only to return and say life is better without me. Close friends for 3yrs. So believe me it sucked.
But what I suggest, is you let your actions speak louder than words. I know people say open up, or have a heart to heart talk, but I just found that it’s best to go in for that kiss when oppertunity presents itself and talk about THAT afterwards.
You open up, put your heart out there, saying how you pined for him for seven long years, only to be left most times with an answer like “I didn’t know ou felt that way” and nothing to indicate if you’ll ever progress to anything more. Just confusion and awkawardness because If you catch feelings, people think you have to drop the friendship lol.
But either way the choice will be hard, so I wish you super good luck and geuniely hope it works out for you :)1
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