Why do guys like flings and hook ups? Why do they need to have them? Why do guys want them with me and not a relationship? Am I just that kind of girl guys go after for them? How should I change that? (By the way I say no to the hook-ups and flings to not get mixed up in things).
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You know - it's not just guys that like flings...it's girls too. Although I think we hear more about the guys playing the field because it's more socially acceptable than girls playing the field.
That being said, I think that 1) people nowadays know that we don't have to settle down right away. So I think that they figure they'll have some fun before they DO settle down (and I can totally understand that!). 2) I think that people do that maybe because of past experiences in bad relationships. Once you're heart gets REALLY torn up, you want to take a break on the emotional side...but that doesn't mean you want to stop dating.0