Most Helpful Girl
Maybe insecurities, not being attractive enough, or being too old and boring
Most Helpful Guy
Their sex drive isn't the same as a mans, so their thoughts of incompatability outshine, plus they like maturity and confidence which younger men have less of. Also most cougars dont have any sons, if they did then they see younger men as their son or his friends and doesn't turn them on. All cougars i met never had any kids.