So yesterday I invited my boyfriend of 5 months whom I am serious with over to drink and eat pizza later on that night. Told him we could have some fun*wink wink* He said he would come over. Well about 2 hrs before he came me and my sister and a roommate started early. We started doing shots and playing this gay drinking game. Well by the time it was over I was pretty drunk. I threw up so much and my sister was there for me. When my boyfriend came over I was laying in bed and he came and layed with me. I was in a "i don want anything to touch me" type of mood so I took off my jewelry and threw it across the room. I was sick to my stomach and couldn't rly move. I also started crying for a little bit. Well my boyfriend decided to leave and texted me some shit like how he blew off a trip to new orleans to hangout w me.said I wouldn't calm down and stop throwing shit and he isn't gonna put up w it.said he didn't do crying either.said he didn't wanna talk to me. I asked him what he wanted from me and he said absolutely nothing.then I asked why was he w me and he said he didn't know. Today I tried to call him and text him but he never responded, that is until 8:30 where he texted and said that he was w his friends all day and was gonna be w them all night and told me to lay off. Can't believe this shit. I figure if he can't handle me at my worst then he doesn't deserve me at my best. More info: I rarely drink and I wasnt acting bitchy towards him at all.
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well, one thing you need to know is that, when people are drunk, and you have someone come over that's sober. your in two total different moods. drunk people are obnoxious, and loud, and slur. when you have a sober person there, it can be annoying. so yeah, he seen you at your worst. and his mindframe, and your mineframe was not the same. he probably felt like, why did she invite me if she was gonna be drunk.
i mean, id be upset too but I wouldn't cause a scene. but then again I'm 27. if I was 18 id be mad. but then get over it. drinking brings out the inner truth.
a drunk mans words are what's in a sober mans mind.
i remember when I was going to a friends house from work. my ex fiance and 2 of my friends were house sitting. they started drinking, when I got there, they were drunk. I had no time to catch up. they all wanted to go into the jacuzzi and I didn't wanna go. they all got naked and went in. I was upset that my fiance, my friend and his girl were all naked and laughing. I was not on the same page. I told them I'm going to bed and went to the living room and went to sleep. I didn't break up with my ex, I didn't get mad at my friends, I just was not on the same page as they were.lol if I was, we would have had a big 4some. my fiance, at that time, did get out of the jacuzzi and came to bed with me.
everyone is different. he has his reasons to be mad, plus maybe he really only came over for just sex. so maybe its good that it did go how it did, cause you know now that he only wanted sex that night.4