You know you just made a racist comment right?
@Nicholashq The small penises is just a fact. 5 inches is small. Smallest average size in the world.Most of the women do feel that way out here. (Seattle)
I also live in an ethnically diverse area that doesn't mean that you can't develop preferences. I was mainly curious about how people feel about people of their same ethnic background as opposed to another background.
I'm a black American. I have known many black American girlsThere are WAY more varieties of personalities and subcultures within the black girls I have known, than one may think.There is a common misconception that all black Americans are mostly the same culturally.Far from the truth.
Well obviously not everyone from a race has the same personality. That would be a dumb thing to think. We all see it in our respective "races" how personalities vary and people can be polar opposites.
You will be surprised how often people see someone if said ethnicity, and make sweeping generating statements about that person's personality and character.As a black American that has lived in the USA his whole life, I can personally tell u this has happened to me before. Some ponder me and think of every stereotype the media portrays about black men, before even getting to know me for even a few minutes!
Well as an afro- Latina I definitely know what your talking about. When it comes to dating, those are clearly the people to stay away from. Too bad it isn't possible to stay away from these people for daily living purposes.
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I'm sorry but having a dating preference is NOT racist. You're not discriminating a "race" by preferring a type of "culture" that is relative to some communities. Saying African Americans are least preferred is absolutely bs. That's completely relative to each individual. If you are uncomfortable with someone else's culture, it's OKAY. As long as you respect it.Not only cultural background but simple physical traits. The person I'm dating has blue eyes because I don't and 1) it's an attractive trait to me 2) i don't have that trait and 3) i probably unconsciously wish that trait to pass onto my children.Having a dating preference is NOT. Something that is nationally preferred or such. It's very VERY individual. You wanna stick with white chicks? Because you have the same beliefs and culture and habits. If i date an Asian man, perhaps I'd be attracted to traits that are uncommon in my life or culturally interesting, compared to mine.Anyway. Rant done.
@TheOnlyAriii I'm glad you said this. Hold onto your ass because I am firing multiple posts at you.The definition of Racism according to the Webster Dictionary:1. belief that race is the primary determinant of human traits and capacities and that racial differences produce an inherent superiority of a particular race2. *racial prejudice or discrimination*I've put #2 in bold print because that is what applies to your innate dislike, sexually, for people of a particular race.The definition of Prejudice according to the Webster Dictionary1. an unfair feeling of dislike for a person or group because of race, sex, religion, etc.2. a feeling of like or dislike for someone or something especially when it is not reasonable or logical
@TheOnlyAriii If you don't consciously reject them because of history and status, then it is probably an implicit form racism. It is impossible for someone not to be attracted to every single black girl out there without some form of racism affecting that choice. This is because we are biologically wired to meet attraction with every race due to natural selection. The mere idea of not liking one because of race refutes the general concepts in biology such as natural selection. If one is not attracted to every member of a particular skin color, societal and cultural practices have directly or indirectly influenced that individual towards racist tendencies. Therefore, yes. Your preferences technically label you, and everyone else who cannot find attraction to a particular race, a racist. You have "a feeling of like or dislike for someone or something especially when it is not reasonable or logical".
@TheOnlyAriii If you can find at least one girl, ONE GIRL, attractive in each race, then you would fit more loosely in the category of being a racist (provided that, if it is so hard to find one girl of a particualr race attractive, then you still have preferences for a particular race, which is racist).
@TheOnlyAriii Before I divulge into racial preference, it is important to consider that, biologically, we should find attraction to people of every color. That is written in our genetic code for reasons I have already told you. The only thing inhibiting such attraction are racist cultural or societal assumptions/influences.Racial preference is always racist. Preference for particular features of a race may or may not be racist; there is no way to actually prove that someone is racist because of their "preferences". Only the individual having preference can answer whether or not he/she is racist. One may prefer pale girls because their favorite color is white. That is not showing liking for a particular race. However, if they prefer white girls simply because of cultural and societal pressures, then that is still racist because you have "a feeling of like or dislike for someone or something especially when it is not reasonable or logical".
@TheOnlyAriii Is racism bad? Well, no. . . but to a degree. Racism is technically programmed into our species and, arguably, every species. Considering that we don't need diversity to be prosperous as species, racism isn't all that bad. However, we don't know what could happen. Global warming *is* happening. This is fact. If, per say, some great catastrophe were to happen rendering the human species to a primitive state, and if there were no more black people on Earth, the human race would technically be screwed solely because the diversity does not exist for humans to make it through the extreme rises in temperatures. There is no saying exactly what would happen, but many individuals would be getting skin cancer. That much is certain. Rant. Done.:P
@TheOnlyAriii Rant aside, you also just made the assumption that all people of a different appearance than you have a different cultural background than you. That is actually racist too, by definition. It is an illogical assumption you just made about someone based on their race. Yep, it's very easy to be racist by definition. I do it all the time. You do it all the time. Everyone does it all the time. Ask yourself this. Put a black person and a white person next to each other. They both are of the same culture, both are of the same hotness level, and both speak the same. Which would you choose? Well, a test like this has already been done. The only difference was the white guy was less attractive. Most women chose the white guy anyway. What did they assume about the black guy? They assumed he was of black culture. Was he of black culture, not in reality, but they sure assumed it. Is this not racist? I think it is youngin
rac·ism×prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against someone of a different race based on the belief that one's own race is superior. ×The belief that all members of each race possess characteristics or abilities specific to that race, especially so as to distinguish it as inferior or superior to another race or race.Read the definition of racism. Preferring a "racial" background is NOT believing that the race is superior.You know what's racist? Saying the white race is preferred over the African American. If it is popular amongst the same "race", it's may be a psychological natural response we have when we see something that ressembles us. Thus the theory of "mimics" where you'd attract someone who acts like you. BUT IT'S STILL NOT believing one race is better than another. It's very individual to your response. Not your societal norms. If you have something to add, I'd suggest to re-read the definition of racism. You're misusing the word.Preferences ≠ racism
CULTURE is what matters in dating, not race.That's the issue with America in terms of the issue of race.We stereotype one's cultural aspects WAY too much based on race.It's so lazy to pre-emptively judge someone's morale and personality makeup based on how someone looks.
@TheOnlyAriii You have twisted logic. Fine, perhaps I am racist for simply stating a statistical fact and not making an assumption about a group of people. You don't read definitions right. There are 2 parts to the definition. It is not one *and* the other. It is one *or* the other.Again I direct you to point #3 in the webster dictionary. 3. "racial prejudice or discrimination".And I direct you to the definition of "prejudice": "preconceived judgment or opinion". By assuming that a black person is of a specific culture, are you not making a preconceived judgement or opinion about someone's race? Based on the definitions I gave you is that not racist? If racism is making a racial preconceived judgement or opinion about someone, again I point to the definitions, and you prefer one race over another because of your preconceived judgment or opinions of the two races, is that not racism.Be logical. Read the definitions. Definitions are definitions.
Not sure why but that was very funny.
Honestly, it kind of makes me laugh too.
I don't know if that's a good thing, a bad thing, or just a thing that happens.
I'm not a fan, to be honest. I live in a mostly white town too, so I kinda end up being the ugly duckling lmao!
Why do you think that they don't want you and why are the Asian girls interested in you?
I never could figure it out.
Do you know why it's anything but white girls or is that just how you feel?
Generally I don't find them attractive. Some white girls are attracrive but also I find other cultures much more interesting.
Are you white?
I get where your coming from
Mixing two races does not "destroy" one of them!Said person is of both ethnicities.
Yeah such isn’t white...