Most Helpful Girl
No. What the hell. I feel really bad about it personally. If a guy is really into me and the feeling is not mutual, it feels like shit rejecting someone. Specially if you care for the person or think they’re good people.
Most Helpful Guy
The power is equal. You have the power to decide who you ask out, the invitee has the power to say yes or no. Not every woman will say yes. And yes, there are almost certainly some few women who enjoy rejecting guys, just as there are guys who enjoy making fun of unattractive women. Mostly, though, women have it the hardest. Every time they turn some guy down, they are praying that he can accept that "no" means "no".