Negativity with ones self?
What Girls Said 2
It’s a question of whether you are willing to stick with her through this or move along... no one, and I promise you, no one can get her out of this slump but herself. If she really wanted too she would find peace within herself, which is extremely hard to do but very possible. You sound like you love her so it is a matter of just being a support system and a shoulder to cry on.
Sometimes people thrive off of negative attention, such as the attention you give to cheer her up. But you must remember self care is a factor. Do not sacrifice yourself and well being for someone who does not appreciate or embrace your efforts. It will turn into a vicious cycle of her needing, you giving , her taking, her lack of appreciation/reciprocation and you feeling empty and wanting to give more.
It’s much easier to find love within yourself and then it will be easier to find someone with that same brightened within them.
I’ve experienced this, good luck
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