My my family had him over last night for dinner and I felt like he was only with my siblings the whole time. (I have 8 siblings 16 and under and and one elder sister) He talked to them, played with them, and I didn’t get to talk to him very much.
After he left he texted me and said how great of a time he had/how he loves my family/etc.
i feel like I’m overthinking it, but I’m still disappointed that he was basically only with my family the whole time.
should I get over it and look at this as a good thing? If so, why?
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Well it's good that he wants to involve himself with your family and I think he was really trying. You may be disappointed that his attention was elsewhere but perhaps he wanted to prove to you that he was being sincere and wanted to be a further part of your life by getting to know your family.