Is this a bad thing or am I just being selfish?

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There’s a guy that has been interested in me (and I him) for awhile. We’re both not interested in dating unless it’s going to be serious (long-term) so we’re seeking it out.

My my family had him over last night for dinner and I felt like he was only with my siblings the whole time. (I have 8 siblings 16 and under and and one elder sister) He talked to them, played with them, and I didn’t get to talk to him very much.

After he left he texted me and said how great of a time he had/how he loves my family/etc.

i feel like I’m overthinking it, but I’m still disappointed that he was basically only with my family the whole time.

should I get over it and look at this as a good thing? If so, why?
Is this a bad thing or am I just being selfish?
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