Guys are easy
@r1d3ord13b1k3r How are they easy?
All you have to do is flaunt more to double your message intake. Guys are simple and stupid creatures when it comes to dating websites.You might not like who messages you, but showing some cleavage/smiling are some easy ways to get more interaction. You could also expand the age range of people who contact you, or what you're looking for. Sometimes guys will actually respect your age/preference boundaries (At least I would).
@r1d3ord13b1k3r I do smile.
Since your replies are vague, I would recommend doing a rate my pics on here to get specific comments/recommendations on how to get more attention. I'm sure the guys here would be willing to share their thoughts.
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Why do I have to change my picture?
I don't know it may be bad lighting/not a good pic
How do you sell yourself and make people want to get to know you?
Highlight your good qualities. What you enjoy., Keep things positive keep away from dislikes. Get a good photo of your self. Sexy but not revealing. Get my drift !!!
How do you make it sexy?
Discribe how you look!. What you wear to the gym include a picture. You can post in a sexy manner style your hair.!!
But I still wish a lot of guys message me.
Why can't they message me?
Apply what you just said the the guys
How do you be welcoming enough?
look welcoming enough in your pics, try smiling..
I do smile but it it still don't work.
Yep I thought so. Don't go on dating websites. They will just depress you. Because they are based on appearance, people don't usually go for black people. Look up the dating statistics. It is kinda sad.
What if I want a boyfriend?
Without the dating website? It is still generally harder for a black woman to get a boyfriend. But that is only statistical probability. There are black women who get boyfriends. There are even some black women who marry white men. Even if the odds aren't in your favor, they are in no way impossible odds. Black women and even black men have it pretty bad marriage wise, though. The trick is to be the best of your kind so that you don't fall under the negative statistics.Blow is a link with my statistical sources.blackdemographics.com/.../You just want a boyfriend though. Just put yourself out there, and I mean really put yourself out there, and someone will go for you. Don't be selective though. Women who are too selective often die alone. The same can even be said about men to an extent (although women have a huge pressure to get married much younger).
What do I do about it?
I don't know, I'm just apologizing for it