We’ve wanted this for a while now and as much as I am excited, I’m also terrified. Cuz I’d be a mom and married and holy shit that’s a lot for a young person. So should we? We don’t live together but we’re hoping to move in together soon once I get a better job
Most Helpful Guy
Get the better job first please!1
Most Helpful Girl
Not a good idea.
Do you have an education- no you don't.
Do you have a good paying job with benefits- I doubt it
Do you have a means of supporting yourself by yourself- I doubt it
You aren't married nor have you been married long enough
Children do not and will never make life easier.
You're too young. Live life first, go ahead and marry him but wait for a few years before having children.
Enjoy each other first, once you have children you can't just up and go out for fun. No going to concerts with friends, no going shopping on a spur.
Your children are your life.
Children are wonderful yes but live a little first.1