What do I do now?

So we're texting back and forth, this lady and I, and I indicate interest in her, just like I've been doing from the very start. This time however, she sounds surprised and says that she wants us to just be friends. I'm not cool with it but I don't sound rattled and I stop contacting her.

A week goes by and she calls me asking how I'm doing and all. Thing is, she already made it clear that she'd like to be just friends; I don't know what to do now.


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What Girls Said 1

  • I think you should tell her that you appreciate the checking in, but that you need some time to reel from her not wanting to be anything deeper than friends because that's fair.


What Guys Said 1

  • If she said she just wants to be friends with you then there is nothing else to do, just be happy you are her friend and maybe take some time to let go of your feelings for her.


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