When we are together, he gives me his attention (barely touched his phone), he takes pretty good care of me, he remembers most of the small details I've told him about me, we laugh a lot and always have good times. But the other day, he was asking me about what I want in a relationship and why I was on the dating app. I wasn't sure what to answer, so I asked him back first. He said he's not looking for exclusivity right now. He's still young (he's 24, I'm 25) and there's a lot he wants to learn and explore. He still doesn't know what qualities he wants in a woman that's gonna be his girlfriend. What characteristics and personalities of women that he likes/dislikes, and that's why meeting a lot of women would be good for finding experiences. He also might move to another State sometimes next year. But he didn't mention if he's dating anyone else right now (which I assumed he is) and he didn't say anything in particular about our relationship and where it's going.
I'm not thinking or expecting of being exclusive right now, but I think I'm getting attached and might starting to fall for him a little. Should I keep dating him or should I walk out? Is he dating me because it's the cuffing season? (I'm sorry, It's kinda long. lol)
Most Helpful Guy
It depends if you're okay with not being exclusive. Are you comfortable with an open relationship, or does the thought of him with other people upset you enough to make you not want to date him under those circumstances? It's all about your preference.
Most Helpful Girl
I don’t think he’s looking for anything, he seems into you but I would trust what he said. That he doesn’t want exclusivity just to meet people