I am witty, moderately attractive (If you like Bruce Willis to be fair). So what gives? Bumble I get - 24 hours to respond is pushing it a bit (it takes 5 days for my sisters to return an urgent call) but the rest... it's a bit depressing.
Maybe it's not like the old days when on Zoosk I had to work to get a conversation going and wasn't that successful - 4 or 5 messages a week. These days that would be a blessing. Maybe it's too easy and too disposable to not even have to respond. A one finger operation. Do other men have this problem and do any ladies have any insight as to why nobody is responding? I don't mind going through a quiet patch but 7 weeks is a bit harsh...
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I decided to give online dating a go after being single a while and being sorted in my career I wanted to have someone in my life to share it with.
So I signed up and paid up.
And yes l had messages but they were from one extreme to another they were either much younger or a lot older.
But those that were in my age range I did reply even if they said the most bizzar things and no reply back. So I feel it does go the other way too.
I did get chatting to two guys one got the hump when l didn't reply back in 24hrs (WiFi died) and one which I had hopes on as he asked to meet after talking for a few weeks but then couldn't meet but would then ask again and then couldn't and after the 3rd time l gave up hope l assume he said it and didn't want to meet or maybe something else only he knows the answer.
But once this month's subscription is up l shall go back to committing to my work hobbies and friends.
But l hope your luck changes.0
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