I am 30 and I have been crushing on older women 20- 40 years my senior. I even have sexual fantasies about them. Is this weird?

Apope16
So, a little backstory. I was abused sexually by my mother. I was also abandoned and neglected by my mother as a child.

Most of these cougars have attractive faces but there is something distinct about them I like.

For example, one coworker has a preppy fashion sense. I just like her style. Another person I know shares my politics and has a warm personality.

But really, how much does a abuse or neglect impact atteaction 30 years later?
Yes. Its your mommy issues
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No. You're an older soul
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Yes. You're immature
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Maybe. But its hormones. You can't help it.
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I am 30 and I have been crushing on older women 20- 40 years my senior. I even have sexual fantasies about them. Is this weird?
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