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Most people are dominated by the false self / ego. When this occurs with women, they lose their multi-sensory capabilities (intuition, discernment, common sense etc) and are limited to seeing through limited senses, and are mostly influenced by the physical plane (raw desire).
With a dominant false self, the truth becomes clouded, arrogance is seen as confidence, brutish violence is seen as strength and showing feelings of any sort is seen as weakness. Extremes are seen as normal, and compassion is seen as docile.
Most women also desire how they feel inside, the man they crave, becomes the mirror their inner self... This is unlikely to ever change.
Your options are as follows:
A) Become an asshole and be with the misguided, and low vibrational beings that crave them.
B) Continue being nice and hope for the best.
C) Opt out, live your life and just forget about all of it.