How many dates until you tell the other person you have kids?

I've just started dating this guy and we get along really well. He's a bit older than me and I found out that he already has two children. I dont actually mind that too much, what gets me is that he hasn't told me yet. If you have kids when do you tell the person you're dating?

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  • depends on the age of the kids. If they are pretty grown up, it doesn't matter. If they are still dependents, then 1 date (it may be a deal breaker for some)

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    • Yeahh they're really young, I'm thinking maybe he's just out to bang me rather than a real relationship

Most Helpful Girl

  • Immediately in a casual way when the subject of family comes up

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What Guys Said 14

  • When you tell the person your dating. That you have kids. Should be based on the childrens age. If they live with you or not. Plus a few other factors. So their really isn't a specific time line for this. You can message me if you would like to follow up

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  • You don't hold onto information like that, it's misleading to tell the other person just after a few dates rather then right away

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  • Why would you want to ruin the surprise... You bring them along to that valentine day dinner. Who wouldn't love that...

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  • Maybe he's worried about the children accepting the new girlfriend. However, he should have told you on the first date.

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  • well its simple math

    you take the number of dates
    then subtract the same amount
    and there's your answer

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  • Huh right away what kinda man isn't proud of kids enough to mention he should tell you right away to see ur response

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  • Definitely before it becomes something more than just dating

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  • Zero. Tell before you meet.

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  • First date you tell them.

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  • Immediately. BEFORE the date

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  • First date.

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  • 1 lol

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  • Tell them straight up

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  • Before the first obviously

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What Girls Said 13

  • That honestly seems like a topic that should have been discussed on the first date. Its too big of a "secret" to hide from someone you're in a relationship with.

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  • THREE. After the first two you're still feeling the person out but after three you're obviously wanting something more and you need to be truthful.

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  • My partner told me he had a son before we even started dating. I'm not sure when most people tell the other

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  • i feel like two? so he gets a feel for you both no one is attached but maybe before ever even going on a date

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  • Umm. I think you should tell the other person you have children before the first date. That way they know what they're signing up for.

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  • I would tell it before or certainly at the first date.

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  • I would make this information known from the start.

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  • I tell them on the first date just being honest

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  • I would want that information before date 1

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  • On the first one

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  • The first

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  • Before the first date. That sort of information should not be withheld.

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  • Before the first date.

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