Is there anyone left who is staying pure till marriage?

Because I am. It feels like I'm the only one. It feels like no one had the same values as I do.

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  • YES!! I consider myself a man of principle, and I believe a woman's heart is too precious a thing to toy with. In past GAG comments I've gone on for paragraphs answering this same question, explaining why it's so much more romantic and healthy to abstain until marriage, and to be each other's firsts. For an American guy in 2017, I'm very lonely in my choice to remain virgin, and I get all these people saying nonsense about "you have to make sure you are sexually compatible with them." But I hope that the girl I find and seal the deal with will be worth the wait.

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  • There are people from all backgrounds & origins that shaped their cultural religion which shaped their belief system. So of course there's people who had similar ideas imprinted on them at an early age who want to stick to that. That's the way humanity works.

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    • There are non-religious reasons to stay virgin, don't boil it down to being things being "imprinted" onto us by "evil indoctrinating religious nuts."

  • I waited 11 months with my ex, she was a virgin. I regret not waiting before her cause after 2 years she couldnt handle my past and we seperated. My past isn't even that bad I've only been with 4 girls sexually and one real relationship.

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  • Purity in virginity was invented by the clergy in order for them to have Sexual control over women. Virginity means nothing other than the meaning you give it. I'm the last century women have discovered this more widely, and are no longer scorned for being sexually active or exploring their sexuality. At the end of the day - how important is being comfortable with sex to you?

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    • You're wrong. There are non-religious reasons for staying virgin. For 4,000 years the Bible has made arguments that recent science now backs up. It's healthier and more romantic to maintain a 1 on 1, 2 people only sex life. The "being comfortable with sex stuff" get out of here with that, you're speaking nonsense they teach you in sex ed.

  • Nope. I view marriage as a pointless tradition and similarly, purity is just an idea put forth by religion. Not having sex doesn't make someone a better person.

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  • Yeah A lot of people me included and there are guys who still believe in this unlike my entire school I’m literally the only virgin there

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  • Maybe. I’ve done some stuff but no penetration. If the girl wants to wait until marriage I wouldn’t care

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    • Really! u wouldn't care! i mean almost all men cares to do it as soon as they can with girls they like

  • Yeah I'm staying pure, those who wasted it most likely regret it

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  • To be honest when I was young tried but great sex chemistry is very important in a relationship what if y'all don't have that great spark and it's to late cause then y'all married

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  • nothing to do with values, it is your personal belief

    you still may turn a lot worse then girls who had sex before marriage

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  • Yeah, I am.
    Unlike modern society, I do have set standards.

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  • That's a shame. Pretty sure some religious fellows out there align with that.

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  • You're not the only one doing so.

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  • There may be some, I’ve never met any

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  • People do. It's just hard to find them

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  • No. I'm with you.

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  • Sure... doesn't include guys

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  • I did... I was 27

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  • Nope

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  • I'm 23, still a virgin.
    Originally it was by choice.
    Now I want this V-card gone like yesterday.
    One thing I'm scared of is when I eventually lose my V-card, knowing me, I'll probably go out fucking anything and everything on 2 legs.

    23 years of sexual repression will give you enough kinks to last a lifetime. At least for men.

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    • Sexual REPRESSION? Jeez... ridiculous. No, what you are feeling is actually normal hornyness. Try being that age and not masturbating... THAT is what being horny feels like.

    • @BrianMerritt sexual frustration then, whatever.

  • I am. I'm 24 and am waiting till marriage. I even try to not look at porn or stare at girls in revealing clothes around town. The world is full of impurity but Christ is supreme.

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What Girls Said 6

  • Of course! Still good amount of people. Dont worry, you don't have to feel alone. But the real question is do they chose you as a potentional partner and share the same views and values as you? That's teh hard part.

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  • If you want to wait until marriage, that's fine, but I don't see what's wrong about doing it before.

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  • I am waiting too. You aren't alone! ❤

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  • Blablablabla penis in your ass

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    • Uptight women 😂😂😂

  • I do... i want it to be special with love not only a desire

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  • I caved

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    • Im sorry. Christ is forgiving tho. Its not like your life is over! :)

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