What can I do to solve my problem?
What would you do?
Most Helpful Girl
I feel you. I’m incredibly shy myself and blush all too easily when trying to talk to a guy I find attractive. Honestly, I find a guy that blushes and seems shy pretty sweet. It’s nice I know i can have the same effect on someone. Don’t worry too much about it. Just take a risk, approach a girl you think is cute, and go with it! If she’s worth it she will be flattered.2
Most Helpful Guy
Ease into it. Just talk with girls like they are friends. If needed, start talking as friends with older women, and slowly work down to young women, then it won't be such a shock to just start talking with younger women. But just be a friend, don't look for a girl friend, etc. Get used to that, and slowly work toward a girl friend. That may ease the anxiety enough to so you won't be lighted up like a Christmas tree.1