Why are guys not staight forward?

well this guy grab my attention when he made a weird face without knowing me... i was intricate so i started looking at his action.. he would stare at me constantly... one day i decided to ask him what was his problem.. he said i dont know you! when did you notice me staring at you? i did not know what to say.. i was on the verge of leaving when he said... hmm i stare at you but not in a negative way.. so i started talking to him and told him that i want to be his friend... he chuckled... added him on facebook... he accepted the request and came to say hi but won't talk with me... he replied only twice.. soon i noticed he blocked me on messenger... i found that strange since he said he has no problem with me. i went through his fb... just to find that he is in a LDR.. all theses stories just find that he has a crush on me but is in a relationship... am i right? why are you guys like that? what can i tell him?


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  • Thats not good to generalize

    You are the one who apprached him and your wishful thinking made you run ahead of reality.
    Dont worry
    All guys are not like that

    • i approached him because he was staring at me... he lives in my neighbourhood and i never ever set my eyes on him.. his weird behaviour drew my curiosity.. i come from a LDR myself... and i know how hard it is... so its a no no for me.. i approached him and he did not tell me he had a girlfriend.. he told me go see my fb.. i had to investigate his fb... if he was straight forward i would have understood the situation better since the beginning

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    • lol go away :P

    • I dont go away that easily 😂

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  • He doesn't know how to be straight forward. I have been afraid to talk to girls. If they approach me the way you did, I would feel guilty about looking at you and would never be able to say, I really like you..

    If you approached me with a friendly smile, I should be able to respond.

    If you approached me in a flirtish way I would respond and it would be rather evident way I was staring at you.

  • honestly I don't know why he's like that, but we can say the same about you girls

  • Fear of rejection probs.

  • Why are we guys like that? We're not; he is.


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