Yes. I have expressed this all to him :/ he stopped liking the photos for a while, and then he did it again. He said “i liked her photo because growing up she was always really insecure”. But, i haven’t really seen him offer me support like that for my confidence. It bothers me, i sent him some texts and he hasn’t replied. But, it is like he’d rather make others happy at my expense - which, come to think of it, I’ve noticed is true in other ways :/
Thats shitty, I do not know if i could stay in a relationship where im miserable and dont feel loved. I"m sorry
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How am i forcing it? He is the one that begs me to stay
cause he's not giving you want you need and want... so that's forcing it because it's not fulfilling you.. but he's fulfilled cause he has you... all his online girls... and you keep going backhe's winning lol...
Is he really winning if we fight all the time because of this?
I’m sure his blood pressure is through the roof lol
well he's winning more because he doesn't change the stuff that bothers you.. and you guys fight because of stuff that bothers you not him really... and he doesn't change it eitherso ya he's doing whatever the fuck he wants... and just convinces you to come back or stay but come back to his shitty habits that you don't even like... so ya you're going back to nonsense but he's getting his girlfriend back and whatever he wants to dohow is that not winning?
I mean, he doesn’t agree with my view on his social media interactions. He gets frustrated that i won’t change my view. I get frustrated he won’t change his actions. I don’t need to change my view, i don’t want to lol. But, he probably feels the same way about his actions. However, he is weaker for me than i am for him. He won’t change these habits, but i won’t ever let the nagging go
Clearly he doesn’t... why else would be need to look at other women?
I mean you could however go to the gym and improve your look and spice things up😎
I do go to the gym. I get hit on A LOT. I know men find my attractive, i am not sure why my boyfriend likes to make me feel i am not
then in that case I think he just wants a break up to hit more women.
It hurts a lot, when the man you love and give your body to, never compliments you. I don’t get it. It makes me feel so small
Im pretty sure you're fine, just find someone worthy of having you☺️
I already am hot. Lots of men like me.
you can say that.. but not your boyfriend right?
He doesn’t say it... and he knows a lot of guys are interested in me. I have gone out places with my boyfriend (clubs, parties, events) and guys come up and hit on me. Sometimes right in front of him, sometimes when he is away for a few minutes. Even on social media men show interest with me (i am not trying to hype myself up). But, i don’t get it. My boyfriend just doesn’t compliment me, or take those other men’s interest as a sign that i am a good catch :/
Holding what against him?
Making him wait for sex or not being flirty with him so he's looking elsewhere for attention
No i am the flirty one. He denies me sometimes
maybe he's losing interest then perhaps call him out on it or be extra seductive next time your with him
I have made it clear. He tells me “you act like i don’t compliment you!” And all he does is tell me “you look good”.
You need to sit jim down and tell him you feel unattractive and insecure because if his actions
Ok if he’s visual. Why doesn’t he compliment me?
Or let’s me know he likes how i look?
Send them to me so I can tell you.
I said to him, “if i posted myself in a bikini, you wouldn’t like it!” And, i have posted photos that he’s given me crap for (nothing revealing, but some did show off my figure and my sexuality in a subtle way). I don’t get it. Anyways. I just posted a photo of me on Instagram and OF COURSE he liked it, after i had mentioned “if i posted photos like other girls, you wouldn’t like them!”
Do the bikini and call him a hypocrite if he does.
This might be my breaking point. He stopped doing it for a while. Then i saw on my feed he liked one. I confronted him about it. He said “i grew up with her. She always used to be really insecure. So i likes it to support her”. That’s great. He doesn’t support me like that -_-
And he's full of shit. He don't know her. He lied to you. Ask to meet her. Have him talk to her about talking on Skype. See him freak out.
He actually does know her. But, she lives back in his home country.
Ahhhhh rare thing there.
I have expressed it to him?
*! Sorry didn’t mean the question make
If his notpreparef to take your conserns seriously as after al you are his partner..Then kick him to the kurb.We accept the love we feel we deserve girl.. Never forget that.
He calmed down with the likes for a while. Then, on my feed it showed he liked a bikini pic. I asked him why he did it. He said “i grew up with her. She always used to be really insecure”. And i am like “okay, and i should be cool about this?” He doesn’t show me that kind of support.
So then you illistrate how this “friends” insecurites are somehow more important than your own?He need s to take a long look in the mirror and find out fast what matters and what doesn't!
I told him this! I said “so, why is making her feel good more important than making me feel comfortable?” He doesn’t seem to understand, that your partner’s feelings should come first! I just hate, how his female friends always seem to come first like that. He has commented 😍 on his female friends’ photos before :/ and his explanation was “she has been my friend since childhood “. Yet, he never posts that on my photos. He never sends heart eyes to me.
In that case.. He doesn't deserve you.Find a man.. Not a little boy.Best of luck to you!
I mean, a lot of men are interested in me. So, I’d assume I’m good enough looking.
Then maybe you are too pretty and hot and he wants to keep your self-esteem in check
This is what i believe it is sometimes :/ but, my self esteem isn’t high to begin with. He might be afraid of my head getting too big.
Exactly. If you start thinking that you are all that, you might decide to trade up in boyfriends.
He doesn’t deserve one.
Okay!😊 good luck in your future relationships.
We can only see each other on the weekends. We have sex every weekend.
Lol that's why then. Not enough sex.
That’s his fault 🤷🏻♀️
I am already fit. I workout 6 days a week.
... and yet
My boyfriend doesn’t appreciate me. A lot of men try and get with me. I don’t get what’s wrong with my boyfriend.
I want HIM to make me feel desirable, not these other men!!!
Not enough sex
What did he replay?
He said “i like them to be nice” and he said “i do compliment you and say nice things”. But, all he says is “you look good”.
It doesn't look good.
It bothers me, and he KNOWS it does. This is the reason we fight SO much. He just won’t stop !!!