Every time I see an attractive girl I don't know, I shut down.
Yeah... I feel you man... Happened to me a lot... But keep trying, be confident in yourself and be the best version of you that you can... And it will work... RlxThe first time that you go to a girl to try to talk to her it will be rlyyyyyyy hard... I know... But don't let the pressure stop you of trying...
But don't focus on going to a girl with already the intention to be her boyfriend... The way I used to learn to work out about my shyness was just trying to make new friends with a random girl
That way the pressure gets a lot smaller and you would not be too affected by a possible "no"... And hell... How know, something can emerge from this new friendship
I know but I really want a relationship
My problem is that I don’t get noticed by girls that often
Build a nice body. Get a nice haircut. Get some nice clothes. And don't be desperate for attention, girls will notice that.
I’m 6’2 220 and I play two sports (one right now). I dress pretty basic, but maybe I have been a bit clingy. I just want attention from the right girl
She knows that you like her?
I think she knows I am/was interested
It's a very big difference between "She knows" and "I think she knows". Try to do something to be 101% sure that she knows (I would tell you to go straight to her and that you like her, but I don't think you will do it). If you are sure that she knows that you like her, and her behavior towards you is the same... she is not interested in you as you are in her.
I asked her out she said yes, then cancelled the night before.
Ask her again. And see what happens.
I'll wait a few days, she's out of state and i've initiated every conversation
Do what you think is better for you, but don't waste your time if you don't get any sign from her.
That's why I am thinking I might move on even though she makes me wonder whether or not she likes me. I'm not in the mood to get played again.
I’m a 6 or 7 out of 10 in terms of looks
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But how do I get a girl to notice me?
this is auto friendzone against an 8+ girl