so i am visiting my parents for the semester and taking a break from school. i met a guy here. he both lives in the two states i am from. so he goes back and forth like me. i am going back, he was like you dont have a car or job. i sent my car here and was planning to lease one when i got there. i quit my job to focus on school and was going to take out school loans and my parents help me. i was going to find another job when i get back anyways. i just thought it wasn't any of his business to say especially because we are not official. was he being controlling so i would stay here because he is staying here at the current moment. he also said, you can always move in at my place but im not going to, i found a place already there.