How do you move on from someone you really like and forget about them completely?

I met him online a year and a half ago off tinder and he was a complete jerk, so then I stopped talking to him. A month later he messaged me to meet him and went I went he decided not to show up and he had a girlfriend at that time. Then another month later he started messaging me and it was all sexual again. In October 2016 I finally agreed to meet him and he was the nicest guy ever. We had amazing sex and he gave me lots of oral and just didn’t expect anything from me and he made me feel like a Queen in bed. Then he offered to pay for my taxi home and I left. He also asked me if we can Continue this to which I agreed. We never really met since then because I was either abroad or he was just playing games. A few months later he appeared out of nowhere and added me on FB and LinkedIN out of nowhere (I’ve never given him my surname) and I was shocked. He then continued playing games and I blocked him, 3 months I unblocked him and he messaged me instantly (again asking for sex). Then when I got a boyfriend, he got jealous and was encouraging me to cheat and saying my boyfriend is ugly. Then a week later he invited me to go party with him and when I went outside the club he behaved like a complete jerk and told me I wasn’t invited, so I left. Then later he apologised for his behaviour. I continued talking to him and he started calling me a slut and saying that he only added me on FB so he can show off how ugly I am to people. i sent him a lot of voice messages of how hurt I was and he only listened to them without replying. unfortunately my boyfriend found out about the messages and got mad at me, so he messaged him and asked him if we been messaging each other and he actually Stayed quiet and didn’t tell the truth to my boyfriend. I was really Surprised because I begged him to keep his mouth shut and he did. The problem is I like him so much because he’s everything I want in a man but I don’t think he feels the same for me

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  • This guy is here only for sex, it's just for it he wants talk with you. And you have a boyfriend, for me you haven't to keep contact with him. It's a jerk, it's what you say, and he insults you, it's horrible, with the humiliation. Stay with your boyfriend who love you or if you don't love him, break and found a better.

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    • I broke up recently with my boyfriend because of this jerk I have literally become obsessed with him and I can’t stop dreaming about him and thinking there’s something more there. We only had sex once and we have known each other for a year and a half and when we met he did everything in bed to please. So I can’t really say he’s using me for me, but I don’t feel like this is moving any further and he’s probably messaging me only to play games and humiliate me

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    • But I heard guys would
      Sleep with anything. I am just worried that if I was better looking he could have dated me or treated me better

    • You mustn't think you are too ugly for this guy, what he does was stupid, but you, you aren't stupid. A men doesn't leave a girl just because she is ugly if before he made love with and he insulted her or its a very bad men.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Experienced that kind of situation few mos ago.. I met a guy online and really liked him that i confessed my feelings but found out that he's a jerk and only wanted sex.. I feel sorry for myself coz I know I don't deserve that kind of man.. I tried not to go online for few weeks until little by little forget my feelings for him.. Until now he gives random msgs whenever im online.. Sometimes I reply politely but most of the time I'm just ignoring him

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What Guys Said 3

  • You shouldn't be serious about him! Not worth the effort you put in.. U would probably be better off without him

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    • I feel ugly. I feel like he only degraded me and humiliated me because he thought I was ugly and not worth it which is killing me. Also
      I don’t feel like I can find better

    • i get how you are feeling now.. All u need to know its all about attitude and right mindset.. Being ugly or good looking is just a perspective a d it can change from person to person. When u start loving urself, enjoy your own company and feel good for being who u are.. Such things would seem petty in front of u.. So dont let him dictate who pr what u are... Channel that positive energy and you will be amazed how life can offer you far better things than being in such messy relationship. I hope you cheer up and sort this situation once and for all good! 🙂

  • Honestly he just the kind of man who want to have sex in fun with you that's all you still young you will find the right man sooner or later don't hesitate take your time how fun don't be hurt or you will regret it good luck

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  • You can't be fucking serious?

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    • Oh yes I am and I really need to move on but I am hoping he would change and date me

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    • I see, look, he is not a guy you want to compare yourself to. Just because he is financially successful doesn't mean he can get whatever girl he wants. I think what is happening her is that he tore down your image so he appears more attractive than he really is, its a psychology thing. Anyways, what I am saying is don't let your existence rely on someone else. Don't be afraid to be your own self-sufficient person, and find a guy with standards who will treat you right and respect that

What Girls Said 1

  • I never forget about them.

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    • I can’t either and I realised the more I suppress him subconscious the more I start dreaming about him. I just know he doesn’t give a damn and it’s hurting me so much

    • That is the worst 😔 I know that feeling all too well

    • It ducking sucks I can’t even look at another man and I just broke up with my boyfriend because I was too obsessed over this psycho and I really really need to move on but I do struggle and I think mainly because he’s hot and
      Rich and can get any girl
      He wants and also because I never liked anyone else as much as him

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