So my daughters dad is coming to visit her for Christmas. We were involved for the past 8mths after not being together for 1yr after she was born. But I got sick of his back and forth and not even recognizing a relationship and I didn't feel it healthy if he kept me a "secret" for my daughters sake and mine. So I just dropped it. He text me today saying he has no money for a hotel and if he could crash on my couch, I never responded because I already had this conversation with him regarding him not staying at my house, he lives 8hrs away from me. So he calls me and just starts judging me and saying how he feels like I'm only not letting him stay at my place cause we're not in a relationship and not having sex etc and how I'm a terrible person and I so on and so forth. So why would he even want to stay with me if I'm SO terrible right? What's his deal?