So my girlfriend and I have been dating for a few months and at first everything has been great! We always had things to talk about, we flirted a lot, and it seemed like she wanted me. But lately things seem different. She doesn’t text me as much, often going hours without responding. When we talk on the phone when we can’t see each other, I’ll surprise call her and she just won’t seem excited. She always wants me to let her know by text ahead of time to make sure she’s free. I know it isn’t me personally because she does this stuff to everyone including friends. However, it makes me feel a bit like shit because I want her to be excited when I call or text. I want her to send lengthy txts saying she loves me. I want her to be not clingy, but just a bit more possessive. And I don’t know how to go about this situation. Talking with her helps... but I can’t change her lifestyle. It’s who she is. Ideas?