sorry i didn't get ur point What do u mean !
I mean about the person's mentality. The circumstances he is in right now, his job, his mindset, about his behaviour towards you. Too many variables.
Thanks.. u r right about it
Still wanna talk about it?
Yes if u like to
Okay. I would like to help.
Yes and mostly he act like he doesn't care about me but when we r alone or no many people around he does care
Well, you need more than that if you want to get married to him. Have you had any dates recently? It seems immature to bear a grudge against you for not wanting to get married, but some guys are like that. How did you turn him down, and what did you tell him?
No dates recently... i told him im not ready to be onto serious relationship and I'm focusing on my study
That explains why he isn't agog with you.
But i didn't say anything bad about him
You turned him down twice...
How is that!
Unless I missed Something, you told him 2 years Ago you rejected his proposal for marriage and recently you told him you weren't interested in a relationship due to your studies. Now, there's nothing wrong with turning him down (you obviously had perfectly legitimate reasons to do so), but how can you expect him to still be interested after all that?
No i didn't told him anything recently... i told him about my study as a reason to reject his proposal...
Ah, OK, I misunderstood. Get him alone, preferably doing an activity he enjoys so that he is relaxed and in a good mood and then open up to him when you sense the time is right.
That needs encourage from me... Thank you u really helped me
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Why ! tell me ur thoughts please
Cause you told him no already. You can't just say no, and then go back and say, "okay now I need YOU to say yes" a long time after. It's unethical because you want the same thing from him that he couldn't get out of you. Simply put, you don't seem to treat him as an equal.
Oh god u make me feel horrible... thank u i didn't c it this way