How do I find a guy ready to be a father?

I'm 18 and I'm finding it hard to find someone ready for commitment.

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  • Most guys your age or a little older aren't interested in getting awakened by a screaming baby in the middle of the night who needs a diaper change. They want to enjoy themselves.
    The guy first has to make enough money to support a family. It's wise of him not to commit to do that until he can.

    Either look for guys around 30 or so who have a stable job or put it off until you're a bit older (say 25) and have more work experience and, if applicable, a degree, so you'll have an easier time re-entering the workforce.

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  • I'm not in the least bit surprised , especially if you're going to try pressing them into fatherhood.

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    • Im catholic, so i guess I've just been brought up with different expectations in relationships

    • You have to remember though that most guys will not want to commit to such a relationship so early in life.

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  • Most people especially those not from religious backgrounds don't see the need in marriage or parenthood until late 20s and older. That's why for the most part I stay out of relationships rn as most girls just date to date while I would rather see them as a potential wife. (I was brought up born again Christian So I have differing views from most)

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  • Slow down you got plenty of time. Give it 5 years, enjoy life first. Travel. After you have kids you lose a lot of freedom.

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  • Guys at this age aren't interested in commitement since they're not fully ready to it I think. Why would you want to marry and have a child if I may ask

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  • That's because you are 18. You're a year away from having to ask permission to use the bathroom in school. Maybe live a little first

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  • Because someone ready to be a father should be having you as a prospect.
    You are too young for that

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    • You have an entire life ahead of you to do what ever you want and study more become successful, fulfill your dreams and aspirations.
      Why do you want to have a baby this soon

  • buy a box of condoms and cut holes in them

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  • You are to young to know what you really want. Experience life find yourself before you lose yourself

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  • I'm a father myself, wasn't planned and split with the mother but being civil we share custody and I love him to pieces

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  • Wow, you're already 18 and haven't had kids yet? I'm shocked.

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  • I'm 38 and still looking for a wife. You could be waiting a while

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  • Do you have the money to raise a child? Would you even be a good mother?

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  • I don't know. just find the right guy. im looking for the same.

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  • Ol. I'm 24 and ready for it.

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  • OK. How many kids do you want us to have?

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  • Whoa, you behind on a pregnancy pact?

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  • lol, best of luck, babe...

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  • By searching

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  • I would have to say older guys.

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  • Only if you promise our babies will come out good looking.

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  • So how old is this guy?

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What Girls Said 4

  • You probably won't find anyone your own age who's ready to be a father

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  • Date older guys like 24-30

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  • Cut that out. You're 18. Finish school.

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    • A career won't make me happy, but my own family will

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    • I know that, im going to university. But i still want to find a guy ready to have a family for when im finished in less than 5 years

    • Expect to meet that guy in about 4 years.

  • Not a lot of guys want to be fathers at a young age. Maybe try looking into your church, I'm sure some guys have similiar beliefs

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