Should I give him sometime for himself? He hasn’t called me for 2 day. I did called him once but he didn’t respond and didn’t call me back, I don’t know if I should contact him again, I don’t want to pushing him away
You clearly have a good understanding of the nature and sensitivity required. I am struggling to give an actual recommendation. What you ultimately want to do is convey that sentiment to him if at all possible. It is likely that if you do try to talk to him, he will assume you are pleading rather than trying to support him.
Yes that’s why I do not contact him after that call and wait for him to get back to me, if he doesn’t get back to me, I would have to move on
Without a communication between the two of you, you are left to make your decisions without a clear view of what he is thinking. To me, the real problem is the challenge of finding a partner with whom you can understand and communicate with.
Update! I have talked to him and he’s mad at me because he saw bumble notifications on my phone which is I don’t use it anymore but I did not delete it. So we take a step back by still seeing each other but will take it slow this time.
You can be quite patient on this and wait until he can accept you, no matter what your phone says. Smart move!
So should I just act normal like text or call him as usual? He replied all messages that I sent to him but he always keeps it short so I don’t know if contact him that will push him away
It depends on what your intentions are. If he was mad about the bumble notifications when you weren't even dating, that is a serious red flag. He is jealous and not only had no reason to be, his reaction tells me, he will be far more suspicious and could be controlling if you ever get serious. Keep in mind, jealously is hate disguised as love.
Yes, he registered for bumble and he saw me there that why he’s mad, I now deleted all dating apps on my phone and trying to show him that I do care about him. My intention is giving it a try as I like him now but if one day it doesn’t work, I just walk away
That sounds good. Keep a weary eye on the jealousy. If he shows any signs in the future, be very careful. That is the type who become abusive and you want someone who can care for you.
He just texted me today that he doesn’t think he can go on with us so I let him go :)
Very wise. If he is a good person to you, be kind and keep touch occasionally. Ten years and twenty years will come and go and you will still want him as a friend.
He texted me today that he doesn’t think he can go on with us :(
I know. It hurts. As I said just a moment ago, don't lose track of him. Give him enough space because you don't want him to block you and such, but it sounds as if he is special. Just don't lose track of him. Time passes quickly. Perhaps his issue won't allow him to love you but most times what he may have thought was a problem fades as he matures.
Yes I told him we are not together doesn’t mean we can’t be friends so now I just leave it up to him, I told him to call me whenever he’s ready to talk but I won’t hanging around for him
Unfortunately I think so. Be supportive and be his friend under all circumstances. Then all you can really do is hope you may get some insight. I really am very sorry for you.
Thank you for all your support:)
I am really sorry I can't do more. I lost the love of my life back when I was in college and there is an emptiness that I've not been able to replace. So I am repaying every kind word I've received and pass along what I can to keep the hope alive.
No, all is good, don’t be sorry :)
I know. There only thing I feel sorry for is I can't really do anything to make you feel better. But it will happen without me 😀
Should I give him space and then checking in or just wait for him to get back to me?
Don't back off totally but don't force anything either. Just let things flow naturally and see what happens
I wanted to call or text him but after he texted me he's trying to sort out his feelings I did call him but no response and never call me back, I don't know if I should call or text him again
I know how frustrating this must be but I would suggest you give him some time
I should give him space and checking in or waiting for him to contact me?
No, if that's all he said, you don't need to distance yourself. Just realize he is a little confused about how he feels about you.
He hasn't called or texted me for 2 days and I don't know if I should call him because after he texted me that he's super busy and trying to sort out the feeling, I did call him once but he didn't answer and never call me back
Give him a week, then call him just to say hi.
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