What is it you want him to think? Are you planning on cuddling with him, staying far away, making out, or getting into heavy petting? Actually, as I remember, everything seemed to come quite naturally when I was your age. You'll probably figure it out just fine.
Wait, isn't that what I sent you? Maybe the app has an issue but it just repeated what I said.
You don't really say what you have in mind though.
I mean that when we're going to fall asleep, I'll hug him.
Ok, so that is the entire plan?
We meet at 8pm. Later, we go to him. Most likely we will eat dinner and we will play. At 1 am we are going to go to sleep.
Okay. Be warned that a hug may lead towards more especially at 1:00 when both of you are sleepy.
I guarantee that nothing will happen there
What should I pay attention to
I would honest be paying attention to what happens on new year's eve... I think/guarantee your friend will have other things on his mind then hugging
Okay, thank you
I prefer to spend New Year's Eve with him
i hate People like you telling people if they are ready or not. ok maybe 13 or younger is not ready enough but at 14 you are ready to bust your nut on a girl or get nuted on. it depends on cultures when you are ready or not. in Sweden it happens a lot in the age of 14 because of the normalisation of the whole thing and talking about it with other people at the age of 11 already. that is why schools in Sweden gives away Free condoms and a litle place called (ungdomsmottagningen) that gives away free condoms.sorry for my English and if i misspelled anything
I agree with you. I am Polish and I do not fully understand English
@Nougat Well, I am not sorry that I feel maternal towards 14-year-olds and do not advise them to be spending the night with guys because a situation could go sideways really quickly and I do not think at that age someone would make a good parent.
@sheknows there are things called Free abortions. oh wait that is in Sweden.and you can use condoms and some cultures normalize it more so it should be ok as it is exept from your cultural understanding of sex. you are ready when you are ready and most people are more and more ready these days. sex is a beutifull thing that there is no shame in. i have grown up normalizing sex and all that stuff so i understand how it Works probobly more than you do for you seem so afraid of it
He is only a friend. I have no reason not to trust him.
@rudzix see there is nothing to worry about just try to make it a fun night
We plan to play games so it will be fun
@Nougat Okay, well we share different political views that I know we will not come to an agreement with. I just know that in America kids having sex is illegal and if I had children I would not recommend going to a boy's house alone. Because I know that people are creepy and things are screwed up now a days.
You think I'm going to have sex there. I just want to spend New Year's Eve with him and have fun.
Oh, good. :)
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I was his age. He would do a lot more than hug if you said he could
He is fifteen years old. On the seventeenth of January, he will finish 16 years.
you're a girl on his bed hugging him. He wants it but doesn't want to mess things up with you.
Because sometimes sleepwalking at night
Hahha, okay, well maybe just explain it to him before going to sleep. I sometimes talk in my sleep so if someone's sleeping in the same room as me I warn them.
Thank you, I hope he will understand it.