Most Helpful Guy
physically I notice their physique, and fitness.
Personality wise, I notice eye contact or lack there of, and how they speak, which is more behavioral but indicative of their attitude which is more important to me than most other aspects as confidence is a large factor pertaining to mental health and decision making.1
Most Helpful Girl
Some of the first things I notice:
-The way he carries himself (e. g., posture, facial expressions, eye contact)