Most Helpful Guy
It's clear to me that you really love him, and it allways makes me happy. However it's not a one way thing, and you should start setting bounderies in a way that has consiquences for him. It's not your job to do all this for him. Let him know how you feel (through clear comunication) then tell him how you are going to set bounderies, and then make sure you do it. I admire your love, and hope he will eventually realize what he has, and show some appreciation. Keep being yourself, people like you are the ones who maintaine my hope in humanity. Good luck ♥1
Most Helpful Girl
I think you're putting in way much effort than what you're getting back - you're being taken advantage of in my opinion. Although it's lovely that you're helping him out you're almost doing too much and you're giving him the chance to just try and get you do to everything. There was no need for you to submit that application, he should've done that himself and now he doesn't even have the respect for himself or you to not get drunk so he's sober for the meeting.
Remember you're not his mother, you're his partner. You help EACH OTHER out it's not one sided.2