The sad part is that its not like I haven't had chances with amazing girls. I waited too long to ask one girl out, I never talked to this other girl. There have been many girls who liked me and I just never knew how to talk to them.
Now, in senior year, I have finally started talking to girls more. Even still, a girl I've liked since last year rejected me for somebody else and I dont know where to go now.
A little backround info on me :
Im 6 foot 1
Pretty good looking
Always smell good
Star player of the soccer team and track team
Do well in school
Usually wear athletic clothes / jacket & sweatpants
Im pretty popular, and I talk to a lot of people, but things never seem to work out with the girls I like. I've tried the nice guy approach and got friendzones. Im currently tring the fun asshole approach but I don't know how thats going. I even tried the tell her you like her before youve ever interacted before approach (also didn't work).
Going down the hall, I get looks and stares from many girls, mostly those younger than I am.
My biggest problems are that I rarely initiate any interaction that you may consider to be flirting or showing interest. I tend to make friends, wait too long, reveal my feelings after she has lost interest, and get friend-zoned.
My other problem is that I get stuck crushing on one girl, think about her day and night, and dont talk to anyone else until this particular girl either loses interest or we srsrt going out.
So, I know what im doing wrong, but what works for the rest of you. I go to a very small school, so we all know each other, and I just want to get a girlfriend who i really like ajd care about at this point so what do high school girls look for in a guy and how do I make myself more attractive to them?