lots of guys I know can’t look past this stuff even the slightest. Their view/perspective about me is completely different once I share this part of my life with them. My one question is WHY can’t you look past it? It’s not like I just asked or just chose to be abused
if I told you my “life story” from start to finish including the abuse I’ve had and gone through, could you see past it? If yes, why? If no, why?
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First of all I hate that this has happened to you or anyone come to that. It's fucking sad... but to answer your question... I would find it hard to have sex knowing that if I put you in a certain position or said a certain something that it could easily remind you of your past which would be upsetting for you and obviously take you out of the zone