Any realistic advice on "chasing" people?

Typical advice to guys: don't chase her, let her chase you.

Typical advice to girls: don't chase him, let him chase you.

This has to be nonsense; nothing would happen if everyone actually did this. Clearly some kinds of chasing are better and more effective than others. What do you think?

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Most Helpful Guy

  • If you like them, tell them. Don't follow them around hoping they'll catch on eventually. Goes for guys and girls.

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What Girls Said 1

  • Stop playing games. If you are interested in them, you should tell them. If you are shy or afraid that it might ruin your relationship with this person, you can try some subtle flirting or try showing some signs of interest and see if they reciprocate.

    Men don't always have to chase after women. Women can chase after men. This isn't the olden days anymore. They even might be thankful that you are making the first move.

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What Guys Said 5

  • Women see themselves as the prize, therefore they liked to be chased. It’s part of what has been hardwired in there brain from when they were little watching Disney movies, coupled with today’s society of feminizing men. Reality is, if you’re truly a man and an alpha male you don’t Chase women at all.

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  • No one should chase someone. When 2 people want eachother they will run together. There's a nice quote tho:

    ,, Stop chasing the wrong one. The right one won't run away"

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  • Men letting the women chase is much more uncommon

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  • I think if you really are attracted go for it

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  • Probably don't run after someone in the street.. That's creepy chasing!

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