Brain. exe has overheated why are people so good at using words
Thank you l. I really needed that
You are welcome! It’s true, though. Girls can be jerks, druggies and drunks, thieves, liars, angry and mean, etc. They aren’t all good for you.
Psychology shows women are attracted to narcissists and sociopaths
@Ryry97 Yeah, site your sources.
I'm confused so girls do like nice people?
Yeah nice girls like niceness in general, but it isn't the key to winning a girl. Just being nice doesn't separate you from anyone else. You need to still be an interesting person.
Not when you’re 16 lol they’ll get smarter in college tho
Girls don’t like niceness in general that’s a crock of shit being a douchebag has gotten me action so I’m certain that’s not true
a lot of people say it gets better when I get older. I just seems like no girl like me cause I don't throw up gang signs and all of that. Maybe it just my school I don't know
@Ryry97 This study isn't specific to women and it doesn't cite where this information is coming from, or the psychologists who did the study. In fact, it only accounts for 72 college freshmen, which is such a minimal number of people to compare to the entire female species. This isn't fact, this is what we call in the news and debate word as "proven theory." Which basically means a small study has been done to prove a theory, not a fact, which only requires you to be able to give credibility to an idea, not a concrete equation with a singular correct answer. It doesn't prove: all women like narcissists and sociopaths, it shows that in a secluded study, people can essentially be tricked and seduced by them.So congrats, you haven't justified your virginity with psychology today
Not a Virgin but nice try
@Ryry97 In truth the only way to actually prove that this theory would be true would be to individually test every single female on the planet and prove that more than half of the time they end up with sociopaths and narcissists. I don't know if you've ever met a sociopath by the way, but if you had you'd understand why that is a bit of a stretch to believe.
Dam my brain hurts. I can see you watch rick and morty
@Ryry97 Also, for researchers they're using a lot of very indirect or broad language, like "narcissist MAY be good in bed..." that isn't really an assured or a concrete fact, it's speculation that they're trying to feebly support. Really, all this suggests in the small pocketed studies presented it is that it's POSSIBLE to fall for a narcissist (not even a sociopath) but not that it's an exclusively female trait that dominates all of us.
I think douchbags act the way they do to feel good about themselves to make up for there little dick.
@Ryry97 I work in the media, research and breaking down it's credibility is what I do lol. Psychologytoday is what we consider "half-credible" because it's an online source, many online sources have what you call "vested-interest," basically meaning they'll post anything that creates online traffic. If you can actually source specific studies with large numbers and notable researchers I tend to find it more believable.
There’s tons of evidence on this and it’s easily observable at any American high school. Girls like to pretend they like guys who are nice so they can keep their orbiters around them while they suck chads dick
@Ryry97 Sounds like personal bias.
No it’s personal it’s observed by many including women who agree
@Ryry97 Who also have personal bias. That's the thing: personal perception can almost never be unbiased because you're using your opinion to make the judgement. Pair that with negative experience > personal bias. If you think critically, you'd be able to break down the idea more than "they suck chad's dick" ... that screams personal bias lol.
It’s personal bias in the same way that saying people like ice cream is personal bias
AHHH my brain hurts from superior communication skills
@Ryry97 But if we're going to talk about personal opinions, I actually do think a lot of women fall for narcissists - not because they actually like those qualities though. In my perfectly biased opinion, it's because they mistake it for confidence and dominance, which are traits that women almost biologically seek out. However where people get confused is that they assume that means they don't value kindness or good traits, I'd argue that isn't true. But with society constantly telling us what is isn't okay behaviour wise, classic male and female traits are uncommon so some women will latch onto anything that resembles it, which often means sacrificing other traits they find valuable.But that's an unfounded theory.
A GAME THEORY
I like you asker.
Hehe. That's a first.
Men too, bc guys tend to go after stupid social media fuled girls
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