I just had a baby a few months ago and I've been working out really hard. Now, I'm a 38-27-41. I'm also 5ft 6 and i weigh 155. I thought i was doing great while taking care of the baby, but my husband's really into fitness and he's pushing me hard. He refuses to be sexual with me until i lose another 5 pounds and an inch off my waist. I asked him if it was really that important and that i could go at my own pace, but he just says he wants me to look my best and that I'm not at my best. I like the way i look, but now I'm starting to think i look horrible.