(the girl knew we were together) we have mutual friends I just never talked to her
Most Helpful Guy
Everybody makes mistakes and not everyone stays unfaithful it's not a disease lol I think some people just crave the thrill of the chase... like a puppy with a new toy that it knows it's not supposed to have. you just have to ask your gut whether or not you can trust him again because without trust it's just a disaster waiting to happen. Dealing with Lies and unfaithfulness can do unimaginable things mentally. Personally it completely change how I see people. It gave me a permanent wall and trusting anyone seems impossible sometimes. It sounds like youve more than fulfilled your end of the relationship lol. People can change just remember trust is earned and always go with your guy... You'll be alright
Most Helpful Girl
For some yes, and some no. I believe when someone cheats and if they're truly sorry and apologetic, makes effort to change these habits they can be changed. and they've learnt their lesson, vs others, cannot be satisfied no matter how good of a partner you are they are selfish. You can compare what you give him if he cheats on you. If you know you're a good partner then you aren't the issue. The thing is he actually lied to you about it, and didn't come clean, he had to realize his errors and be actually sorry if you are considering to stay with him.