Boyfriend behaviour wrong or me?

My boyfriend of 25 years and me being 19. He goes shisha once in a while however I really dislike this. We're an Indian couple. I've told him countless times but he will just say 'don't tell me what to do' or 'you can't tell me what to do/what not. I just want him to stop going there!

and recently he was out with his friends at shisha and I kept texting him and he goes 'can you stop, I'm out with friends' I find this really rude? I mean I don't really get time off him because he works 12 hours 6/7 days sometimes 5

should I react like this? I mean he's out with his friends right or does he not respect me!
Boyfriend behaviour wrong or me?
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