Girls, Girls what do you recommend in this situation?

I carry my weight really well, I weight 230 pounds or 105 kilos but most people think I weight a lot less. My issue is going on dates like blind and online dates. I look curvy but I think I’m just fat. However, I don’t want to make it seem like I am lying to a guy about my weight since a lot of guys are superficial when it comes to bigger women. If I carry my weight well, what should I say? I carry most of my weight in my butt but it’s proportional not weird looking or anything and I am tall so it doesn’t look bad. Most people think I weigh around 150 pounds Or about 70 kilos. Which I know is a big difference but that’s what a lot of people tell me. They get surprised once I tell them how much I really weigh.
  • Tell guys ahead of time you are fat
    Vote A
  • Don’t tell them, it’s none of their business
    Vote B
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  • Just tell them women don't talk about their weight


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