Unfortunately, I get jealous even when she only talks to other people.
Only almost 3 months
I went through the same thing. Its pretty typical in a new relationship. I felt horrible about my jealousy issues and i actually visited a therapist for it (I do not recommend this as it was not helpful). Basically, just give it time. I've been with my man for a year and a half now. I still get jealous easily, but it's not anywhere near as bad as it used to be. If she really loves you, she'll understand.
I told her about it and she is not obviously happy about it, but I am trying to tell her that I'm not in control of these feelings. Talking to a counselor, well, okay, but I am not very comfortable talking about such things with other people.
That is part of the problem, because you need to take control of the emotions. Especially when they are potentially dangerous, such as with jealousy. If you let jealousy control you, it can ruin a good thing. But if you control your jealousy, then you can improve. As for a counselor, I can understand you may not be comfortable talking about it with someone. But it is far better to talk about it and get help dealing with the jealousy, then to let it just go and expand on its own. Because if you do that, you may be fine now, but soon enough, you may end up getting into trouble... because jealousy is not something to mess around with.
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