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It depends on how they became fathers in the first place. Did they have sex being married, or they fooled around before marriage and popped up with a kid? Some makes good dads, others needs a lot of work. My main concern is what they are doing in their futures, and how are they investing in their children now that they are in the world? I just find it to be a very bad situation that is destorying our society. So unless the mother died or he had a divorce that wasn't his fault, I have a very poor view on those who did it out of a whim or supposidly 'accidentaly' got somebody pregnant. I overal respect and honor them, who are active in their children's life.