I genuinely don't care what someone looks like. My standards are high, personality wise but I don't judge people based on weight especially because I know how that feels. I am just desperate for answers at this point. I kinda just need hope that I'll at least die knowing what a relationship is like.
What kind of guys do you usually pursue? Pysique wise. What I meant by "stay in your lane" was to aim for attainable partners. That sounds fucked up but as someone who is overweight and has other undesirable characteristics, I need to have realistic expectations. That's how everyone should view themselves. There s absolutely someone out there who feels like you do, the hard part is finding them
I'm a 16 year old in a small town in an even smaller school. The guys that have rejected me are it. The rest are wayyy out of my league. Please don't try to make me seem like an unrealistic idiot when I'm only asking if people that I think are reasonable for me to date reject me because I'm not up to their standards.
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You know what also isn't good for my health? My medical condition that makes me gain more weight than the typical person.
I mean in how guys often make it out to seem. People often use me as in insult to others like "Hey! My friend wants to go out with you!" To upset their friends as if its such a terrible thing for them to like a fat girl.
Those are all about your age right?
Yeah, my age or a little older
So, what intelligent stuff do you actually expect from people your age (or a little older)? Do you really think they make out the men that you will see in the future.Anyways, do some workout everyday. And watch what you stuff in your face. Some people just have to be more careful than others.
Thanks for the advice but it makes me want to stuff my face just to spite you. Don't tell me to lose weight because thats not what I was asking for. 😊🖕
Aaaaand THIS is why you'll never find a guy...
At this point, you're making me hope I don't.
And you're back on the right track. Exercise and diet is still not bad for you though. Just like for everybody else.
I've been fat my entire life and I've been dieting and exercising my entire life. I live like a normal person I just carry a lot of extra weight with me.
Well, bacause you say "my entire life" as if that would be impressive in some way...
Because I literally mean since I was little. I had to learn what dieting was and had to be put on a very strict diet before I could even understand the concept of being fat.
Alright then. I'm tired now. Good luck
Not all the time.