Do you ever get tired of looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend?

I am. Maybe its my pms getting to me but dam! I'm so over this shit. I tried so hard, and nothing. I'm so tired of this all.
They said if he's the right one you shouldn't even have to try, he'll be right there. Well, maybe I'll stop trying. See where this goes.
Are you tired of looking?

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  • Me too. I'm fucking tired of this shit lol. Hey girls, just fall for me without my efforts please lol

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  • "They said if he's the right one you shouldn't even have to try, he'll be right there." How many strange guys have rang your doorbell recently and asked you for a date when you answered? Whoever "they" is has NO idea of how things actually work IRL.

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    • And yet girls believe this theory of 'a guy will show up when you least expect it, stop looking etc' because they live at the effect of others; are used to good things happening to them. If they lived at cause and took real action to actually meet a guy like we do, they'd have no problem. But wait, I forgot it's slutty to talk to guys unless they approach apparently so it's easier to just cry about how the world sucks and no guy wants them.

  • Yes, I get sick of looking (except that I got lucky and a girl asked ME out lol [but I'm going to date her] ).

    It's a different story for guys an girls though. Generally (though not always), guys have to go do the looking and girls have to wait.
    Guys generally do the looking/perusing because girls recognize when a guy is trying to flirt better than how a guy recognizes that a girl is trying to flirt. It is still said ghat girls initiate 60% of all approaches though, so there is the rare case that a guy will recognize that she's trying to flirt. Because of this, it's usually the guy that first reveals his crush in plain words.

    Honestly, you could grab his crotch and he still might not get it. It's best that you do your girl-flirting for a while to get him at least familiar with who you are, then set a day that if he hasn't reciprocated yet, you tell him that you have a crush on him in plain words.

    I guess all I'm trying to say Is don't lose hope because you might have just been using the wrong formula until now.

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  • Just say the hell with it for a while, chill about it, and get the right mindset. When you reach the point that you don’t care then give it another shot. I had times that I wrote it off and did other things. Dating changes like the weather, feast or famine, etc. Find something fun to do, the hell with dating I say

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  • It gets so annoying and the longer you look the lower your self esteem gets. Although if you don't put yourself out there who is going to approach?

    You can't expect the guys to make the first move every time. No matter how pretty a girl is guys just as tired of moving first all the time

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  • Yep signed up for tinder was on there 10 or 12 days got 2 matches out of the solid 100-150 people i liked anywhere from a 5-9 looks wise. I consider half the ones i liked beneath me and still no luck lol. POF is not bad but hard to keep it exciting. Was living in town of 5000 when i was on tinder most matches were far and even in a city not much luck in this place 15,000people. I think im a solid 7 looks so maybe i come off boring but yeah im tired of looking too some meaningless sex sounds good

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  • "They said if he's the right one you shouldn't even have to try, he'll be right there."

    That's a bullshit quote - life doesn't just happen regardless of gender. As to your question, yes I got tired of looking but I also had 3 relationships now and I got just as tired dealing with the relationships. When I got my first relationship I was like "really, this is it? this is what everyone wants so bad?" which was actually even more depressing than looking for someone.

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  • if by trying you actually had balls to ask guys out and they rwjwcted you, its ok

    if you didn't, then try

    youl end up with 7 cats if "il wqit for the perfect one" is your excuse

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  • Iv been MOB mentality since I was 19. I haven't had a girlfriend since then and my money making abilitirs sky rocketed 😂😂 gunna go back home soon and find someone there. North American women are way to fucked up for me

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  • I have always been single and I never looked for anyone in my life so there is no question of getting tired. Simple.

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  • i am tired all of these girls lying too much. i am tired of having to ignore the lies. and worst of all after talking to them lets say 5 times i get bored and find the uninteresting and move on

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  • It was my situation of being so desperate few years back... but after getting good job... I spend my entire week like 5 days of work and 2 days with escort... no dating no bullshit...

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  • Hm I guess I had until a girl seemingly appeared in my life then disappeared from it. And now I'm interested to what other suprises I have left in my life.

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  • Dead ass. It really does get tiring. And I even tried dating apps, those are the worst. Nothing but teases.

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  • what's the reason to search for a mate. I don't see any other reason other than to repopulate and produce offsprings. If you can't find a mate just give up.

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  • Yeah I stopped trying long ago and I'm still alone.
    Maybe one day you'll meet someone without trying

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  • As hard as it is too do to let someone go you LOVE do it because they will never feel as strong as you do

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  • Well you will end up alone.

    Maybe you should just put down what future you want and how will a guy fit in that.

    Then you create the perfect guy to fit into that future.

    Then you assume you have failed. The guy was perfect but you failed. Find out what could possibly happened and prevent those failures.

    Then replace the perfect guy with a failure. Again, assume your life has failed. Now, prepare and plan so that those failures aren't going to kill you.

    Finally, go out and hunt down a guy you like.

    Remember, he isn't going to be the perfect guy. He will just be a guy, regular, just like you.

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  • Had one in my life and she cheated me. I am not going to complain about my ex.
    I am waiting for the right moment now because someone must have to give that license to me to make me hit upon her. I don't want her to make it easy for me, but she has to give me that license. I mean that she must have to give me a chance to go for her. If not, then i won't hit upon her because I don't have a lot of time to chase all the ladies around. I am picky when it comes to a relationship because I want someone who is looking for something serious. Its not going to make me tired though. Its a hard decision that u must have to take in life and that's y i must have to be picky.

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  • Honestly, I haven't put much effort into it. I tried back in my late teens/early 20s a bit but it felt like it was more effort than it was worth. I just found it emotionally draining. In hindsight, the girls were trash and weren't worth my time anyways. I wouldn't mind finding someone (the right one, though), but would prefer it to happen organically instead of me chasing unicorns. Perhaps that's too much to ask. Truth be told, I'm my own worst enemy because I just kind of hang back and carry on with my business. I'm so used to being in my own that when a girl does show the subtlest of interest, I tend to not act on it and ask her out immediately. I like to feel things out for awhile to see how interested she actually is but I tend to run out of time quicker than I anticipate. I just need a kick in the ass but my emotional inertia weighs me down.

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  • Yup... Stop trying the right one will come along. I'm with you girl.

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What Girls Said 6

  • Girl yes. I’m 16 and all guys are jerks, losers, or fboys. Some are sweet but too shy to do anything with it. I’m sooo tired lol I want a guy who when I’m about to cry hugs me and makes me feel better and who cares abojt my fav restaurant so he can take me there more then who’s playing who in football and who will just kiss me when I yell at him and call me back when I hang up

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  • Yes, the older I get the more I start asking myself the following questions :

    * Do I really want a relationship? Or is it because most of my friends have moved onto the next chapter of their lives.
    * Is there really no one out there for me?
    * Have I reached the unattractive stage already?

    I'm tired but I would like to find companionship and experience being in a relationship so I'm still giving dating a go. Not easy though. Probably will give up soon haha

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  • Yes, very. When I look I only get more depressed and my self-esteem drops terribly. Trying to be happy single sometimes works but deep inside I'd like to have someone. But I'll rather be single than with a fuckboy, idiot and so on.

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  • No because I don’t activel LOOK for a boyfriend. I meet people, befriend them or get acquainted, and if among those people I find a guy I’m attracted to, I go for him.

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  • That's the problem. You're looking for one. Usually you won't find one, or the right one if your constantly searching. It's something that happens naturally.

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  • I've never tried looking. I've never found interest in wanting to look.

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    • No I get tired of the lies and false promises to love someone no matter what then leave them because all they need is a little reassurance

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