Actually, this is exactly what made me think about that. I think men have no problem to pay something they can afford on a date. But what if your date doesn't deserve it. What if she is a "gold digger". How would you know if she is just taking advantage of you?That's why I wanted to see especially the honest girls point of view about that to see what is different about them compared to "gold diggers".And I can see that the common thing is that a girl will at least want to split the bill after the first date.
If she doesn't deserve it don't spend itm how you figure that out? Use your sense i guess.. hard with love i know
Women are no more deserving to get paid for first than men are to get paid for first.
Why do you prefer that?
Because many men believe that buying a woman dinner or a drink makes them entitled to sex.
It isn't just what men beleive. That kind of girls actually really exists.The kind that sleeps with you when you pay for them and reject you if you don't/can't.
I have never in my life encountered that. I think you watch too much porn.
If you didn't encounter them, besides you are not a man, then don't think istead of me. Ask me or ask anyone (men) about their experiences when dating women and they will give you the right answer.Sounds to me that this is more accurate and logical to do instead of guessing and not relying on solid expriences of the gender who is concerned by this.
I’ll stick to paying for myself, thanks.
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Great reply. 😊
Women are no more special than men are.
Yes, I'm your 1st down voter.
Men are no more special than women are.