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With my ex my income was miles more than hers so i was happy to pay always. She always (at first) wanted to split the bill but that feels like a business transaction. So we agreed I'd pay but every so often she woyld pay for both of us a treat to me if you will.
If you're on an equal wage then the man should pay for the first couple. Then it should be shared after that. Unless she's digging for gold